Has someone ever laughed at you, yet you're clueless as to why?
When I was a young pastor grappling with the responsibility of shepherding God's people, I knew discipleship was key to doing it well. But I had no plan or program to do so.
I told a good friend who assisted me in the church that I needed to find out how to disciple people. His response? He laughed at me!
Discipleship as a way of life
Why did my friend laugh at me? He told me I was already discipling people. Because I was discipled, I naturally discipled others. It was how I came to follow Jesus.
Because I was discipled, I naturally discipled others
I can trace it back to one of my good friends in high school who became a believer ahead of me. He was young in the faith, but he shared about his life since following Jesus. Since I knew him from before ("BC"), I could see the change in his life.
He was gracious to me as I touted my own spirituality. I was caught up in the philosophy and morality, or lack thereof, of the times (the late 60's/early 70's), but he shared his faith in Jesus along with the love of Jesus. It was simple, relational, and intentional.
My friend was not a pastor, nor is he today. He was a follower of Jesus. He has remained faithful and still follows Jesus. Though we are separated by a few thousand miles and time, we're fellow disciples of Jesus who disciple others.
All believers are to be fellow disciples of Jesus who disciple others
Everybody's got an opinion
Recently, I read and reposted an article written by Seth Barnes. I saw it on a leaders blog I'm subscribed to and went to his site. I'm funny that way, I like to know something about the person writing the article.
I read and liked the post (appreciated, not just social media "liked" it), so I reposted it. I also read some of the comments. Several people also appreciated his article, but quite a few took exception to it. They thought he should include their view of discipleship.
Here's the thing. It's easy to have an opinion, but opinions are cheap and not always true. The question is— If you think discipleship is important, are you doing it?
From what I see of Seth, whom I don't know personally, he's doing it and doing it well. He has what Jesus says is important in John 15:16 NIV—fruit that will last.
The question is— If you think discipleship is important, are you doing it?
Discipleship is something you do
I'm not a program type of guy. I don't have a grid for discipleship that people need to fit into. I am committed to discipleship. In 1995, I started up a Bible college in the Philippines. The crazy thing is, I never finished Bible college myself.
I developed a curriculum of study through the Bible that was inductive and text-based. It was simple. I realized a few years later that the key ingredient wasn't the curriculum, although important, it was the personal involvement with students as they studied.
As I mentioned in an earlier post, I learned how to teach while in the Philippines. Of course, as a church planter and pastor, I thought I knew how to teach. I'm still learning today, as I disciple and mentor others.
Discipleship is done, not taught, per se. Yes, it can be studied, written about, and curriculum can be developed for it, but it must be done to bear fruit—lasting fruit. This is what Jesus did and we cannot improve upon it.
Discipleship is something that needs to be done, not talked about or studied
Here are some more questions and thoughts to consider
- Do you talk about discipleship, or do it?
- Do you intentionally and relationally disciple others?
- Discipleship is more about life example than doctrine or theology.
- Jesus discipled in a very personal and intentional way.
If you are a follower of Jesus, who is following you as you follow Jesus?
I'm not a well-known expert on the subject of discipleship, but here are some thoughts I have on it— Thoughts on the Essence of Discipleship [Download it by clicking on the link]
Here is what's more important than my thoughts—
- Learn about Jesus and follow Him (Matt 11:29; 16:24)
- As you follow Him, be mindful of your example and influence on others, and...
- Develop gracious relationships with people who need and want to follow Jesus
This is what my friend did for me, and what Jesus did with His first followers.